The Secret To Creating Powerful Life Visions

Welcome to the FUTURE...

I offer you a deep-dive perspective on vision and goal theory, and reveal what I see as the secret to being able to set and connect with the vivid images of your ideal future; while, at the SAME time, not be ATTACHED to the outcome. 

It seems like an oxymoron—right?  

The Secret To Creating Powerful Life Visions

How do we allow ourselves to see and believe in a future, while NOT being attached to it? 

Much theory in goal achievement supports the essential function of FOCUS.  To manifest our future, we want to bend time, blast ourselves into that future, to see, feel, hear, taste, and touch its reality. The more clearly we can enhance and embody that picture, the more likely it is to manifest.

BUT, how do we create this crystal clear picture, while NOT being attached to how it turns out?

Doesn't it stand to reason that we protect ourselves from disappointment and failure by merely ALLOWING our life to unfold? By staying detached, aren't we safer? Aren't we less likely to disappoint ourselves, let down others, or feel like we failed?

WAIT, WAIT, WAIT.  Staying SAFE in this way, limits our growth; keeps us away from the possibilities, and puts our creative spirit in a small stuffy closet, barely able to breathe.  

WHAT IF you made a contract with yourself; to trade JUDGEMENT for RADICAL COMPASSION and EXQUISITE CURIOSITY - a two for one DEAL!  

I propose this as the secret to creating powerful visions -- without setting yourself up for disappointment.

IF you could TRUST that you would honor this deal, to swiftly swap out judgment with RADICAL COMPASSION & EXQUISIT CURIOSITY, WHAT WOULD THAT MEAN FOR YOUR LIFE? 

WHAT WOULD YOU DARE TO DREAM, CREATE, BE, and even LET GO OF, if you no longer feared judging yourself for the outcome?

This agreement to trade JUDGEMENT for RADICAL COMPASSION and EXQUISITE CURIOUSITY would allow you to FREELY CREATE the IMAGES OF YOUR FUTURE as if they had already occurred; and to set the course of your calendar in that DIRECTION; all without FEAR. 

As long as you stay in ALIGNMENT with the AGREEMENT; you HAVE NOTHING TO FEAR. 

Let's check this theory.

Consider what happens to the following emotion when you TRADE JUDGEMENT with RADICAL COMPASSION and EXQUISITE CURIOSITY. 

• "I feel disappointed." 
  • DISSAPOINTMENT - is a judgement that is out-of-alignment with your AGREEMENT.
  • Come into alignment with RADICAL COMPASSION and EXQUISITE CURIOSITY, and disappointment transforms to something new. 
  • Try it now: 
    • Think of a past goal or vision you made but did not fully achieve and where you felt disappointed with yourself.
    • Now, give yourself the gift of RADICAL COMPASSION by fully forgiving yourself, and then follow EXQUISITE CURIOSITY to find the wisdom from what you learned. Disappointment turns to love, and learning.  

Rinse and repeat this same exercise with any other negative emotion -- and you'll see, that you've found the power to remove any FEARS associated with setting goals. 

This AGREEMENT to trade JUDGEMENT with RADICAL COMPASSION (AKA - love) and EXQUISITE CURIOSITY (AKA - learning) gives you the power to DREAM AGAIN.  

When you have this AGREEMENT and you do the work to stay true to it...

<OH YEAH - THERE's WORK - the good news is that it's a capability you can grow, it's learnable, and you deserve it.>

...then you CAN ALLOW yourself to create the visions of your future, to experience them AS IF THEY ALREADY HAPPENNED, and as long as you are in alignment with your AGREEMENT, you no longer need to fear the judgement of DISAPPOINTMENT --- because EVEN if disappointment does arise, YOU MUST LET IT GO in order to stay true to your AGREEMENT. 

And so...

That is how you can create the pictures of your FUTURE; confidently set the course of your calendar to follow them and NOT be attached to how it all unfolds. 

Trading the pictures from your visions, with the realities of your human experience, is the beauty you GET TO LIVE. 

And now is the perfect time to write your vivid ideal visions for 2025. 

May they be spectacularly specific! 

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